Giving and Receiving On Your Blog — When Do You Start Receiving?
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Giving and Receiving On Your Blog — When Do You Start Receiving?

by Alex · 21 comments

Usually I find that in blog­ging, more work is being done on our part than we will actu­ally be rewarded for doing. Any time we do work, we expect some­thing in return of greater value. And when we don’t get that reward, we aren’t happy about it all.

One of the many things blog­ging has taught me in the whole two years I have been doing it is that I will not get rewarded the way I want to be rewarded. I have brought that les­son into my own life out­side of blog­ging, and I feel like it has made me a much bet­ter, and more pro­duc­tive worker. That les­son kind of sep­a­rates the blog­gers who won’t make it from the ones who will.

Hard Work Now Pays Off Even­tu­ally

It is not true when some­one says that “hard work will pay off now” when it comes to blog­ging. Any suc­cess your blog finds is due to hard work. Cre­at­ing your blog, con­stantly updat­ing your blog, pro­mot­ing it, it’s all hard work.

While it may not seem like post­ing your links on a few blogs every day is hard work, you have to look at how many times you have done it, and when you do — that’s a lot of work.

Expect to Give More Than You Receive

Just as I had opened this post, in blog­ging you can’t think for a sec­ond that you will get more in return for some­thing you put a great deal of work into — espe­cially if you’re new to blog­ging. I even have a great exam­ple to back that up.

This hap­pened to all of us at one time or another…

It can take any blog­ger who wants to write a great arti­cle any­where from 30 min­utes, to maybe 2 hours (or more if it’s a really long post). On aver­age, how long do you think it takes you to write a good post? For me, I’d say 30 – 60 minutes.

Our reward for writ­ing a post on our blog are usu­ally com­ments, right? Think about it, if you write a post and it takes you 60 min­utes to do, and each com­ment you get on the post takes less than a minute to write — how great of a reward have you actu­ally received?

You can be like most blog­gers and take the fact that get­ting com­mented on is reward enough for writ­ing this post, but if you’re an opti­mist like me then you will see the real value of com­ments. You write a post for an hour, and get a response that could have been writ­ten in a minute or less.

Does that open your eyes a lit­tle bit? Don’t you see that by look­ing at the lit­tle things like this in blog­ging, you want to be rewarded so much greater because of the time you spent mak­ing your blog great for your readers?

And At Any Instant — Your Hard Work Can Mean Nothing

With all of the things I have cov­ered in this post, it seems like it is really a hit to your moti­va­tion and will to keep blogging.

Hope­fully, you came into this arti­cle know­ing that it takes a while for you to actu­ally start gain­ing before you start receiv­ing. If you’re a new blog­ger who may be unaware of this, then just take what I say here really seri­ously. Because it turns out that the peo­ple who don’t know this are the ones who quit on their blogs so early.

How To Erase All of Your Hard Work

Blogs require a con­stant stream of hard work to sur­vive. That’s writ­ing, pro­mot­ing, main­tain­ing, inter­act­ing, and build­ing — which is a lot to handle.

If you did all of the above on your blog, then one would think that you are on your way to hav­ing a great, long liv­ing blog. But it’s not uncom­mon to just say “screw it” one day and not do what you’re sup­posed to do. So, with that being said: what makes all of the vis­i­tors and read­ers you’ve just spent time get­ting to go away? The exact oppo­site of hard work: doing noth­ing.

Going back to the idea of the rewards sys­tem of “giv­ing more than you receive”, does it seem fair to you that you put hard work into your blog and then later decide to throw it all away? It’s a per­sonal con­flict hon­estly, and it’s some­thing I’ve had to ask myself once or twice since run­ning this blog.

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I'm the 17 year old blogger & designer behind Blogussion. I live in New Jersey (but root for the New England Patriots), and am a Junior in High School. You can check out my rarely updated personal(ish) blog, Asnio, or connect with me on Twitter.

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Kathy April 28, 2009 at 10:15 pm

Hi Alex, Awesome blog…. The strength you possess is passion. That is what differentiates most people who start blogs. You’re site is great. And I am truly blown away that you are only ( humour me) 15! …. This is one old chick who sees great things ahead for you! ;)

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Alex April 29, 2009 at 6:22 pm

Thanks Kathy, I really appreciate that. I hope you stick around to see what I have to come up with next! :p

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Stuart Conover April 28, 2009 at 11:28 pm

*laughs* I run into this daily on my personal blog as of late. A good excuse is that I’m actually working on my other blogs and my personal one has always mentally been there just to keep my writing up while things are slow. Just it feels the neglect, it really does. (Also the lack of commenting / writing causes a decrease in traffic.)

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Alex April 29, 2009 at 6:23 pm

I think personal blogs don’t really need as much attention as your regular niche blogs do. But if you have an audience on a personal blog (which I find to be impressive), then you’d better do your best to keep building it up!

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Miami Web Design April 29, 2009 at 3:22 am

its basic nature of human being that he always expect something in return for any act he do . and the same philosophy applies to online world too . But we need to understand most of the time we won’t receive any rewards quickly and we need to continue our work and wait for the right time

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Alex April 29, 2009 at 6:24 pm

If we can understand that not only in blogging, but in the “real word” then I think we can get really far in accomplishing what we need to accomplish.

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Nicolas Prudhon April 29, 2009 at 5:59 am

The problem is in the expectations of people. To many come to internet and the blogging world after having heard of some incredible overnight fortune made by some lucky few.

They expect nothing less than that. Register a domain name, start a blog, and collect money.

The reality itself is quite a different world, and although blogging doesn’t require you to have a boss of going to an office everyday, like Alex said, there are many tasks required to be done everyday.

And that’s for the blogging part only! When it comes to monetizing a site, that’s an all different story! Like I said and so did Alex, when you start or really want to build momentum on your site, you should remove any monetizing system such as Adsense or Ads squares!

That’s means you are blogging and working for absolutely no reward at all… for a period of time which could be more or less long depending on how serious you are with your blogging.

How can someone who came for a quick easy buck stand for that? Easy, they can’t and they quit.

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Dennis Edell April 29, 2009 at 6:11 pm

I couldn’t agree more my friend. My blog is over a year old and is NOW starting to be monetized…..wasn’t even on the to do list until now. ;)

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Alex April 29, 2009 at 6:33 pm

To be honest, when I first made the blog that was here before it was merged with another to create Blogussion, I expected a lot. At first, I would update the blog once every second day because I honestly didn’t see the point in posting every day when I was new because I wouldn’t get a lot of comments like I wanted. But I was wrong, and it wasn’t until after merging that blog with Janith’s that I understood that. I was just lucky I lasted so long without ditching, or I don’t think Blogussion would be here today. :(

I really don’t play on making any money from this blog until we are about a year or two old. I mean, that’s a long time from now. But I have other methods of making money at the moment away from this blog so I know the fact that I won’t make money here won’t drive me crazy financially.

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Nicolas Prudhon April 30, 2009 at 7:43 am

It’s not just about how long you wait as an actual time factor I would say, but rather the size of your readership.

Obviously the more you have readers, the more you can monetize; on the other hand, monetizing too early will shrink your readership…

It takes time and hard work to build trust with your readers, and it’s very easy to lose that trust…

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Dennis Edell April 30, 2009 at 12:43 pm

What some don’t see is there is also the possibility of monetizing too late. If readers get too locked into to al the cool free stuff, some may rebel….whether they’re right too or not.

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Alex April 30, 2009 at 5:58 pm

That kind of sounds like Twitter, whenever the company tried to put up even the littlest ad, the community FREAKS out!

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Nicolas Prudhon April 30, 2009 at 6:01 pm

I guess it’s all about the way you “introduce” your monetizing system to your readers.

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teenwebguru May 1, 2009 at 5:29 pm

So so true. However, you have to really think about what you want out of blogging. If you want a lot of money for a little work, blogging is definitely not for you.

Blogging really does give though; it makes you a better writer, gives you life lessons, and much more. When you really sit back and look at what you have accomplished, you will find that you have received a lot.

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Alex May 1, 2009 at 11:05 pm

Wow, that’s a very good point you bring up there Jack. Not that i think about, blogging has improved me in many different aspects. My writing skills have improved, I have become more organized, and a lot of other things.

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Kai Lo May 1, 2009 at 9:13 pm

I’ve written a similar post to this couple days ago. Some of the people commented that, “what goes around comes around”, but I simply told them that’s not how it works. Never expect anyone to give back, and just help people just for the sake of helping them.

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Alex May 1, 2009 at 11:09 pm

Well, in some cases it could be true. You write great content consistently, you may get linked to. Of course, it doesn’t always work like that, and that saying proves to be true.

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Ricky Peterson May 2, 2009 at 5:36 am

Very Professional written post by Alex, thanks for sharing such a vital information. I totally agree with your thought Hard Work Now Pays Off Eventually, every blogger needs to put in starting efforts and it will surely not go fail and eventually his or her blog starts becoming famous as time progresses.

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