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		<title>By: fitness girl</title>
		<link>http://www.blogussion.com/community/make-enemies-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-25575</link>
		<dc:creator>fitness girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Jan 2011 08:17:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a blogger we encounter different people,different ideas and opinions.We should respect everyones thoughts,competition is always around it depends on how you deal things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>As a blogger we encounter different people,different ideas and opinions.We should respect everyones thoughts,competition is always around it depends on how you deal things.</p>
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		<title>By: Nick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jan 2011 01:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, just reading it now. I&#039;m not sure if it falls within the lines of &quot;making enemies&quot;, but receiving nasty comments from vocal opponents is something that is inevitable if you run a popular or successful blog that has a lot of visitors. 

At the end of the day the blogger benefits from it, not only because of the &quot;reality check&quot; discussed in the article, but also the fact that it usually adds fuel to the fire in the comments section. People will generally start responding to the nasty comment, and you may even get people who start visiting the blog repeatedly just to see what the responses will be. This in turn leads to increased traffic.

Just look at ProBlogger: Darren Rowse has blogged several times about how he gets nasty comments from critics on an almost daily basis, yet blogging has opened up more doors for him than most people could even dream of!

And no comment in this article is no truer than this:
&quot;If everyone agrees with you all the time, then your content might suck.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>Great post, just reading it now. I&#8217;m not sure if it falls within the lines of &#8220;making enemies&#8221;, but receiving nasty comments from vocal opponents is something that is inevitable if you run a popular or successful blog that has a lot of visitors. </p>
<p>At the end of the day the blogger benefits from it, not only because of the &#8220;reality check&#8221; discussed in the article, but also the fact that it usually adds fuel to the fire in the comments section. People will generally start responding to the nasty comment, and you may even get people who start visiting the blog repeatedly just to see what the responses will be. This in turn leads to increased traffic.</p>
<p>Just look at ProBlogger: Darren Rowse has blogged several times about how he gets nasty comments from critics on an almost daily basis, yet blogging has opened up more doors for him than most people could even dream of!</p>
<p>And no comment in this article is no truer than this:<br />
&#8220;If everyone agrees with you all the time, then your content might suck.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: seospidy@Seo Services Company</title>
		<link>http://www.blogussion.com/community/make-enemies-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-22114</link>
		<dc:creator>seospidy@Seo Services Company</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 08:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Having competitors is key to success and its fun to fight in niche business i like this awesome post</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>Having competitors is key to success and its fun to fight in niche business i like this awesome post</p>
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		<title>By: Murlu</title>
		<link>http://www.blogussion.com/community/make-enemies-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-21188</link>
		<dc:creator>Murlu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 23:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a few IM people that I don&#039;t like because they charge for products which should be clearly less hyped and offered for free. Of course, I&#039;m not the one to say if they should do either of these but it still irks me to see so many trying to give people the run around when it comes to information.

I have that old school mentality from the early web - most should be free but if it will have a fee, it better be damn well worth it.

That&#039;s one of the main reasons why I started the blog - wanted to make sure people have the free option :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>I have a few IM people that I don&#8217;t like because they charge for products which should be clearly less hyped and offered for free. Of course, I&#8217;m not the one to say if they should do either of these but it still irks me to see so many trying to give people the run around when it comes to information.</p>
<p>I have that old school mentality from the early web &#8211; most should be free but if it will have a fee, it better be damn well worth it.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s one of the main reasons why I started the blog &#8211; wanted to make sure people have the free option <img src='http://www.blogussion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kristin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 15:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think its great because it forces you to prove them wrong and makes you think outside your box. When people give you negative feedback, its a good time to turn it into a constructive way of making your blog better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>I think its great because it forces you to prove them wrong and makes you think outside your box. When people give you negative feedback, its a good time to turn it into a constructive way of making your blog better.</p>
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		<title>By: Reza Winandar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reza Winandar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 12:27:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Enemies is important I think because it will motivate you to do a lot of positive things to prevent a lost from your enemies. Beat your enemies with sportive method and you&#039;ll be proud of yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>Enemies is important I think because it will motivate you to do a lot of positive things to prevent a lost from your enemies. Beat your enemies with sportive method and you&#8217;ll be proud of yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Telemarketing Services</title>
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		<dc:creator>Telemarketing Services</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 03:41:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice post, thanks for sharing this by all means. Competition is commonly encounter in blogging business, along with this comes  jealousy, ego, and etc. This is an ideal thing about blogging, glad to read this one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>Nice post, thanks for sharing this by all means. Competition is commonly encounter in blogging business, along with this comes  jealousy, ego, and etc. This is an ideal thing about blogging, glad to read this one.</p>
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		<title>By: Febap Liew &#124; Making Money Online Today</title>
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		<dc:creator>Febap Liew &#124; Making Money Online Today</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 14:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;In order to have an enemy, one must be somebody. One must be a force before he can be resisted by another force. A malicious enemy is better than a clumsy friend.&quot;

A quote that i have picked up in the net. Ever in my life, i haven&#039;t had much enemies per say. In fact, i don&#039;t think i ever have one. There are some that I dislike but I don&#039;t address them as an &#039;enemy&#039; .
However,as mentioned by alex, enemies or such &#039;disliked person&#039; are apparently those that you will grow out from. 

I personally believe that my greatest enemy is myself. =)
twisted but true. not that i am crazy or such. but for the fact that i am always trying to be better than what i am. If today i could do this, i hope to be better at what i did yesterday. does that sound &#039;enemy-ish&quot;? i think it does. 

anyway alex,
great post. i am sure that someday ,we would eventually have to come across such circumstances. it is up to us to learn from it or weep.
cheers</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>&#8220;In order to have an enemy, one must be somebody. One must be a force before he can be resisted by another force. A malicious enemy is better than a clumsy friend.&#8221;</p>
<p>A quote that i have picked up in the net. Ever in my life, i haven&#8217;t had much enemies per say. In fact, i don&#8217;t think i ever have one. There are some that I dislike but I don&#8217;t address them as an &#8216;enemy&#8217; .<br />
However,as mentioned by alex, enemies or such &#8216;disliked person&#8217; are apparently those that you will grow out from. </p>
<p>I personally believe that my greatest enemy is myself. =)<br />
twisted but true. not that i am crazy or such. but for the fact that i am always trying to be better than what i am. If today i could do this, i hope to be better at what i did yesterday. does that sound &#8216;enemy-ish&#8221;? i think it does. </p>
<p>anyway alex,<br />
great post. i am sure that someday ,we would eventually have to come across such circumstances. it is up to us to learn from it or weep.<br />
cheers</p>
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		<title>By: Kimi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kimi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 16:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had an &quot;issue&quot; with someone who is also a blogger because different opinions, but now we are good together and i feel good.

Somehow, i feel awkward to be on the Internet, and had an &quot;issue&quot; with someone whom i have even never met..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>I had an &#8220;issue&#8221; with someone who is also a blogger because different opinions, but now we are good together and i feel good.</p>
<p>Somehow, i feel awkward to be on the Internet, and had an &#8220;issue&#8221; with someone whom i have even never met..</p>
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		<title>By: John Paul Aguiar</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Paul Aguiar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 16:22:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex.. I luv this post man.. I have a Top blogger &quot;enemy&quot; and I use that to work harder, makes me want out rank, out traffic out everything him..lol

If you come with Hard Work, Passion and throw in some Anger.. you have a nix for some blogging explosion man..

Harness the anger &quot;enemies&quot; and use it to fuel you thru the days you r to tired to blog, to tired to promote.. rtc..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style=""><p>Alex.. I luv this post man.. I have a Top blogger &#8220;enemy&#8221; and I use that to work harder, makes me want out rank, out traffic out everything him..lol</p>
<p>If you come with Hard Work, Passion and throw in some Anger.. you have a nix for some blogging explosion man..</p>
<p>Harness the anger &#8220;enemies&#8221; and use it to fuel you thru the days you r to tired to blog, to tired to promote.. rtc..</p>
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